Moving to Ocala, Florida – Final check list

Here’s my final check list of To Do’s and how ready and excited we are to move to Ocala, Florida. Even if we don’t like Ocala, I do not plan on ever moving back to south Florida–too hot and too much hurricane stress. Yes, hurricanes can impact all of Florida, as well as Georgia, North and South Carolina and all along the eastern seaboard. Plus, Alabama, Arkansas, Mississippi, and Texas. If you would rather listen instead of read, play the audio:

As we are in the final days before moving, I have the final check list of To Do’s to complete:

  • DONE – Submit change of address to the local USPS
  • DONE – Request our electricity be changed from my name back to condo owners
  • DONE – Disconnected internet service (cable) on 8/21
  • DONE – Return the community clubhouse/pool key (on the Friday before we leave)
  • DONE – Return condo keys back to Realtor managing the unit (following her instructions)

Upon leaving the unit:

  • DONE – Put chairs back where they were when we moved in
  • DONE – Wipe down all counters and tables
  • DONE – Sweep all floors
  • DONE – Take out the trash
  • DONE – Check the laundry pair to ensure I have removed all clothing
  • DONE – Turn out all lights/and ensure fans are off
  • DONE – Turn up AC thermostat to 88
  • DONE – Unplug microwave
  • Took video of the place clean
  • DONE – Have to drop internet equipment at UPS store in Bradenton before leaving town

We have talked about any last things we want to do while in Bradenton, such as places we want to go eat or shop, friends (any who care would need to come and see us), and we think we are good with what all we have done and seen.

There’s our favorite, Poppi’s Restaurant (they have the best fried fish and grits), Cremesh bakery/cafe we only recently discovered, and the European Deli “A Taste of Europe” in Sarasota. I am hopeful we will find good alternatives of these in Ocala.

At some point one simply has to be okay with the “been there, done that” stuff and call it a day. We have offered friends many opportunities to see us and if they couldn’t make time, it is what it is. I will not harbor resentment, but it shows us where we rate in their lives. It’s okay.

I think these are similar to the thoughts one has before dying. a song comes to mind: We may never pass this way again. Seals & Crofts.

Final walk through

  • Ensure I didn’t forget anything
  • Take video of how we’re leaving the unit

Special thanks to Robyn Openshaw who told me of another medical doctor (who is a Health Freedom advocate) we could see in Ocala.

And thanks to my friend, Karen P. for driving from St. Pete to visit us, enjoy a meal out, and for bringing a key lime pie. As well as gifting me with the fresh avocado and mango (I ate today!) and for our walk to my special grandmother Banyan tree:

Bradenton Banyan tree

In case you missed part 1 of this post: https://sheilamurrey.net/2023/04/29/apartment-hunting-in-ocala-florida/

Part 2 was: https://sheilamurrey.net/2023/05/04/apartment-hunting-in-ocala-florida-part-2/

Part 3 was: https://sheilamurrey.net/2023/08/04/moving-to-ocala-florida-update-and-prep-work/

My 4th book is on Amazon!! And here’s how you can read it: Have Yourself a Wholly Vibrant Life: Reversing Asthma and Other Chronic Illness Naturally

To our better health, ease, joy, and sustainment in JOY!

Sheila “Spiral Sister” Murrey

Peace. Out.

Integrating the Spirals to ease suffering

My online Zoom video course, Integrating the Spirals is helpful now more than ever because I know people are suffering. (Let me know if you’re interested in the Integrating the Spirals course.)

As an empath I want to help ease suffering and raise hope. I want to uplift others and raise our collective vibrations and consciousness. I teach breath work and meditation so we appreciate the value of Detachment. We till our inner soil with our breath and that offers us peace and calm. Meditation is an easy way to Connect us with spirit, higher selves, Omniscience God, and receive personal guidance.

Be the best version of who you want to be–because if you’re reading my words your soul is probably beckoning you to align with it and live up to your highest ideals. Not perfect because who is perfect? Most stagnate or ‘get stuck’ while on their way to being whatever they think perfection is. Making progress is enough. Carrying your Karma lightly is enough. Be kind to yourself while living responsibly. Who you ARE affects us ALL. We Are All Connected.

Omniscience knows ALL. Omniscience is always with you. You are never alone.

The information provided is for educational purposes only and is not intended to treat, diagnose or prescribe.

About us

My husband is an award-winning illustrator, plus he’s a seasoned guitarist, bass player, and songwriter (with over 400 original songs). You can view some of his artwork and listen to all of his songs at: http://listen4music.com

Here’s a video of us performing on Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/416711742?ref=fb-share

About me, your Spiral Sister



I would love to speak at your bookstore, crystal shop, acupuncture/chiropractor office, natural health foods store, art fair, music, or yoga festival. I support healthy lifestyle businesses. 

I invite you to check out my new metaphysical book–Blue Eyes: Ethereal Messages of Connection. There are two versions (Kindle and paperback) on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3WV68KF

I’m an Amazon bestselling author of two co-authored books: “Transform Your Life Book 2 Inspirational Stories and Expert Advice” and “Energy of Receiving” available on Amazon.

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For more updates, To Do’s, or moving to Ocala, Florida and our new adventures, follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/takeonyour

Moving to Ocala, Florida – Update and Prep work

Here’s an update that includes my prep work (list of To Do’s) regarding our impending move to Ocala, Florida. If you would rather listen instead of read, play the audio:

As mentioned previously, we chose an apartment community 3 to 5 miles from downtown Ocala, so we could live within walking distance to grocery stores and eateries. We were prepared to apply to both our top choices of communities (just in case for any reason one didn’t accept us). Thankfully, we were accepted by the one with the amenities we liked best and in the best location to meet our needs (namely, within the shortest walking distance to the stores, doctors office, banking, and eateries we liked). The application, check in, monthly rental payments and such are all done online too, which I love, because we have had many issues at our current place of rent checks (yes, even paying via Bill Pay) get lost, not cashed, etc. and nothing irritates me more than paying before or on the due date and the people not getting the money for 10 days to two weeks through no fault of ours!

I have our electricity, water/sewer, and internet services all set to turn on for our new apartment soon too (we move 8/21/23), so we will see how it goes. I still need to put in our change of address notice with the post office, but I think by this point in time, I have everything done that needs to be done. I have the U-haul truck and two helpers hired. I will drive the moving truck myself with hubby by my side. I think once we get everything packed into the truck we’ll see how much more we want to buy at the new place in order to keep future moves also to a minimum.

We have packed about 85% of everything and are waiting until the last 3-4 days before moving day to complete the rest. I think of it like packing for a trip or vacation but in reverse. Everything I use daily, will go into my suitcase the day before we get the rental moving truck. I’ll take an Uber or Lyft to the U-haul dealer.

I have also pre-cleaned the current place a lot and will do more of that the last few days so that once all our boxes and totes are out, it won’t take me long to do one final wipe-down and broom or vacuum and call it done. Mind you, this place wasn’t all that clean when we moved in so I will leave it at least the same or better. It’s furnished (I had never rented a furnished apartment before in my life) but they had never moved and cleaned under anything, which has always bothered me. I didn’t know initially until I dropped something at one point and it rolled under the bed. UGH

The owner never steam cleaned the couch or such either so I always had a sheet covering it (they disagreed but I felt there were blood stains on the couch cushions too, so that’s another reason I covered it). Anyway, I know one person’s idea of “clean” can vary drastically from another’s, and so again, it is what it is. I’ll take a video when we leave just to ensure I can prove how we left it should any questions arise.

Summary

  • I can let go (deep breath here) of all low vibes I have had about living in Bradenton (I never wanted to live here but it was cheap rent and available at least for one year) back when we had looked for a place in St. Pete/Gulfport and could not find anything reasonable or available. Some places were only available during part of a year, and lots of small houses, duplexes, or such went on AirBnB, so there’s that.
  • I’m glad our new place won’t have GPS issues (it’s been hard for people to find our current place for deliveries), So many times, drivers have had to text me to find us at this place in town, which I certainly never expected. I guess the city of Bradenton never thought their addressing scheme out very well back in the day. (After having delivery issues when we lived in the woods “off grid” before moving here, that had been one issues I’d never expected to have, living in a city.
  • I’m glad our new place won’t have mail issues (some of our mail went to another near identical address here and thankfully, those folks were nice and brought our mail over to us when it would get delivered to them). Our new apartment community has a mail center where packages are received. And the address is super easy to find for visitors via GPS.
  • I’m looking forward to taking a bath at the new apartment too! The current old iron tub has a rusted out spot and hole in it so I couldn’t take baths here, only showers.
  • I can release negative feelings I have had about no one visiting us in two years (of “friends” (who live here) who we used to know and see a lot but apparently quit caring about us after we moved away (for work back in 2017). So be it.
  • I can look onwards and upwards. Two years here has been more than enough and that last hurricane (Ian), pushed me over the edge as far as dealing with power outages was concerned. Yes, I realize that’s a first world country problem but we did our 17 months living off grid during 2020-2021 and we are sooo over that!
  • I’m looking forward to using new appliances too at the new apartment–everything here is old, hence the cheap rent I suppose.
  • I can focus my energy on making new acquaintances and friends and seeing new sights. As well, we will be two hours closer to northern destinations I want to visit soon! Two hours closer to getting out of the state should we need to.
  • I love the hills and lay of the land in Ocala too.
  • I love the arts community in Ocala also.
  • I love horses. I grew up with horses and worked with an equestrian photographer years ago too, so I am hoping I can do something there related with the equine industry. I am asking the Universe to surprise me!
  • I am also hoping it is more quiet there, though I am sure the trade off will be between the all ages community we will be in versus the 55-plus community we are in now, and also we will have someone living above us. But there’s going to be major road work going on where we are at currently and I didn’t want to be here when it ramps up with milling and paving happening for weeks/months! This condo has poor windows and doors and we can hear everything outside and are close to a four-lane street that will get widened.

I feel Ocala will present us with a lot of adventure, with more natural springs to explore, horses to view or ride (I am looking forward to visiting the World Equestrian Center (WEC), and see how folks of all ages accept our original music in Ocala (as Richard already asked if he could play guitar at the apartment community pool and was told he could), so we shall envision success there!

In case you missed part 1 of this post: https://sheilamurrey.net/2023/04/29/apartment-hunting-in-ocala-florida/

Part 2 was: https://sheilamurrey.net/2023/05/04/apartment-hunting-in-ocala-florida-part-2/

My 4th book is on Amazon!! And here’s how you can read it: Have Yourself a Wholly Vibrant Life: Reversing Asthma and Other Chronic Illness Naturally

To our better health, ease, joy, and sustainment in JOY!

Sheila “Spiral Sister” Murrey

Peace. Out.

Integrating the Spirals to ease suffering

My online Zoom video course, Integrating the Spirals is helpful now more than ever because I know people are suffering. (Let me know if you’re interested in the Integrating the Spirals course.)

As an empath I want to help ease suffering and raise hope. I want to uplift others and raise our collective vibrations and consciousness. I teach breath work and meditation so we appreciate the value of Detachment. We till our inner soil with our breath and that offers us peace and calm. Meditation is an easy way to Connect us with spirit, higher selves, Omniscience God, and receive personal guidance.

Be the best version of who you want to be–because if you’re reading my words your soul is probably beckoning you to align with it and live up to your highest ideals. Not perfect because who is perfect? Most stagnate or ‘get stuck’ while on their way to being whatever they think perfection is. Making progress is enough. Carrying your Karma lightly is enough. Be kind to yourself while living responsibly. Who you ARE affects us ALL. We Are All Connected.

Omniscience knows ALL. Omniscience is always with you. You are never alone.

The information provided is for educational purposes only and is not intended to treat, diagnose or prescribe.

About us

My husband is an award-winning illustrator, plus he’s a seasoned guitarist, bass player, and songwriter (with over 400 original songs). You can view some of his artwork and listen to all of his songs at: http://listen4music.com

Here’s a video of us performing on Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/416711742?ref=fb-share

About me, your Spiral Sister



I would love to speak at your bookstore, crystal shop, acupuncture/chiropractor office, natural health foods store, art fair, music, or yoga festival. I support healthy lifestyle businesses. 

I invite you to check out my new metaphysical book–Blue Eyes: Ethereal Messages of Connection. There are two versions (Kindle and paperback) on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3WV68KF

I’m an Amazon bestselling author of two co-authored books: “Transform Your Life Book 2 Inspirational Stories and Expert Advice” and “Energy of Receiving” available on Amazon.

Connecting…

For more updates, To Do’s, or moving to Ocala, Florida and our new adventures, follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/takeonyour

Current TO DO list

This is a post of my current ‘To Do’ list and what my day-to-day life looks like. If you would rather listen instead of read, play the audio:

List of current tasks

Good morning. Good afternoon. Good evening.

Reiki

I sent the following list to my Reiki group when my Reiki teacher asked one of the others to find out why I wasn’t coming to the Reiki Masters weekend class that NOW they want to have June 17th/18th.

The class date has already changed multiple times—and one was due to my request from having to work one weekend. Thus, I was flexible and canceled our vacation, which was to be this week when the class was set for June 3rd/4th. I say this to admit the lens of irritation I am looking through at the moment.

In the order of importance, my reasoning for not attending is:

  • 1) I can no longer leave Richard for a whole day (much less two days in a row)
  • 2) I have no car and taking Uber/Lyft is too expensive, hassle of riding alone (Richard always goes with me anywhere in Uber/Lyft when/wherever I have to go)
  • 3) No one has came to see us/visit, etc. Not just from Reiki but the other friends we have had here for 6 years and I am feeling effects of that – the yin/yang and push/pull kind of energy disturbance. Now, I am distancing us from others as I perceive this whole flux of energy—be it right or wrong; that’s what it is
  • 4) I know my Reiki master teacher and other friend there are probably enjoying the avocado trees I brought over when we had a rental car, (neither could visit us to pickup the trees, so we went out of our way to drop them off a month or so ago). No one has sent me any updates or pictures, thank you’s or what not of the trees. And yes, little things like that add up to me. Actions speak louder than words. If I hadn’t started making this list, because someone couldn’t accept No as a complete sentence, I probably wouldn’t have realized this annoys me, but I guess it does. I realize everyone is busy and that the trees are small things. But I put a lot of money, time, love, and Reiki energy into those. And I am human. And now, yes, by choice, homebound. So, the lack of any updates is magnified.
  • 5) I am running a Power of 8 group now via Zoom, so I think my desire of group Connection is fulfilled
  • 6) I am running another course, marketing books, music, and still working my job, which keeps me busy – so my mental plate is FULL and I don’t feel it is necessary anymore to complete the Masters Reiki. No one is taking me up on my offers of prayers or Reiki support either. Or at least, not many, and my other health business is taking off.
  • 7) I miss several others from our earlier Reiki circles (the Tuesday nights) and thankfully, one has reached out to me for other reasons than why I am choosing not to attend the masters training. I really am not feeling pity for myself. I humbly remain in Gratitude for ALL.
Thanks to James Young (Facebook friend) and alex elle for this exquisite meme: “there will be moments in life when showing up for yourself will mean leaving behind the people who don’t.” –alex elle

Updated Blue Eyes: Ethereal Messages of Connection

I had a few small items to correct in the ebook and that is done. I have to update the paperback version as well.

Joined new writing group on Facebook

I am now in an Akashic Records writing group on Facebook. It’s a paid private group that meets twice a month for about an hour each time, on zoom.

Started writing a new book!

I have a name for the new book and have started getting my notes together in Scrivener for it! Curious of its name? It is something I have blogged about and say many times. Let me know in the comments.

Decluttering laptop

Checking off moving tasks

  • Uship – setup moving request in draft
  • Found a Uhaul place in Ocala near one of the possible apartment communities in case there’s any issues with Uship
  • I feel I can do most of the move myself if need be but I will take a week off to do it
  • Have three potential apartment communities to call to get final availability on June 15th for August 20th move-in – one called today and sent us two potential unit numbers to check the community map to see which we might like
  • Started packing our bedroom this past weekend
  • Ordered more totes from Thirty-One for organizing/packing
  • Using up food stored in the kitchen so we will have less to move

Seeking a way to travel to New Hampshire this summer

We don’t want to fly, but we are open to traveling by train (though to reach our destination will require us changing trains three times or more, plus still renting a car and driving a hundred miles or so for the last bit).

I think it would be lovely to travel with a group of like-minded friends and add some sacred site stops in along the way! I have a list of places we could see and fantastic AirBnB places to stay as well. Anyone interested in that? We could make the trip 10-14 days in length. Florida to New Hampshire and back. Let me know in the comments.

One of my cousins called and offered to fly to Florida and drive us in a rental RV or van to NH. We are thinking about it.

Finding ease within responsibility

We Are ALL Connected and the decisions of others can and do tug, push, or pull us to the degree we ALLOW. I still believe in personal responsibility because if I influence someone to higher or lower frequency—I am culpable. Omniscience knows ALL.

What do you think? Let me know in the comments.

Transcribed by https://otter.ai – edited with Grammarly.

Sheila “Spiral Sister” Murrey (p.s. We’re on TikTok! Search for Spiral Sister)

Here’s our newest song, which I feel is destined to be a smash hit! Let me know what you think:

In The Mirror, original song by Richard Murrey

Spiral thought: My 4th book is out now, on Amazon. It’s available in paperback and Kindle ebook. It’s on Kindle Unlimited (free to read if you’re a member):

Paperback book cover for Have Yourself a Wholly Vibrant Life: Reversing Asthma and Other Chronic Illness Naturally–click the cover to go directly to the book on Amazon.

Integrating the Spirals to release loneliness and suffering

My online Zoom video course, Integrating the Spirals is helpful now more than ever because I know people are feeling lonely and suffering all sorts of things. I’m not a salesperson nor do I believe in stuffing things down anyone’s throat. YOU can let me know if you’re interested in the Integrating the Spirals course. It’s ALL YOUR choice. Wink! HUGS!

As an empath I strive to ease suffering and raise hope. I want to uplift others by practicing what I have learned, till the inner soil with breath—many times, every day—to instill peace and calm. Ahhh…

About us

My husband is an award-winning illustrator, plus he’s a seasoned guitarist, bass player, and songwriter (with over 400 original songs). You can view some of his artwork and listen to all of his songs at: http://listen4music.com

Here’s a video of us performing on Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/416711742?ref=fb-share

I invite you to check out my new metaphysical book–Blue Eyes: Ethereal Messages of Connection. There are two versions (Kindle and paperback) on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3WV68KF

Fractals of Omniscience

In and beyond this magnificent Universe, Omniscience knows ALL. Omniscience is always with you because you are a fractal part of Omniscience. You are truly never alone in this ever-expanding Universe. We are each fractals of Omniscience akin to glints of sunlight on the surface of a large body of water or the rays of sunshine shining upon us.

Fractal of Omniscience. “Spiral Sister”🌀Observer & Perceiver of Energy & Wisdom from Nature. Empath|Author|Connector|Speaker|Singer.❤️🦋🌀🎼〰️🙏🔥☯️

A bit about me, your Spiral Sister

I would love to speak at your bookstore, crystal shop, acupuncture / chiropractor office, or other holistic / natural fair or festival. I support healthy lifestyle businesses. For information on ALL of my books, visit my Amazon Author page.

An Amazon bestselling author of two co-authored books: Transform Your Life Book 2 Inspirational Stories and Expert AdviceEnergy of Receiving, and author of the captivating Blue Eyes: Ethereal Messages of Connection as well as the incredibly helpful 2nd edition of Have Yourself a Wholly Vibrant Life: Reversing Asthma and Other Chronic Illness Naturally.

Be the best version of who you want to be–who your soul beckons you to be. It’s important because who you are in this world affects us ALL. We Are All Connected.

Information provided is for educational purposes only and is not intended to treat, diagnose or prescribe.

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