Money and Spirituality: The Inherited Divide

Perhaps before I posted the previous article, I should have addressed the sacred cow in the room. I can’t charge money for Spiritual Advising. And I often feel resentful of people who charge ME too much money for Energy Healing, health coaching, etc. Ugh! Why?

That’s what I’ve been asking myself. And here’s what I’ve found:

My first and perhaps most REAL connection between Spirituality and Money was from my years in church. It was when the plate was passed around and people “tipped God” or slipped in their envelope containing their tithe.

I’ve never fully bought into how most churches handled the idea of the tithe. (The church I was raised in taught the way one should calculate their tithe different than most other Christian churches too. We were only asked to give 10% of our INCREASE.)

But what does the church DO with the tithes they receive?

Something about giving “to God” via a church always felt off in my body—too institutional, too transactional, too removed from real relationship. So instead, what would have been “tithe money” tends to move more organically through my life. Supporting small businesses. Buying something and giving it directly to someone who needs it. Responding in the moment rather than following a rule.

That feels closer to how spirit actually moves through me.

And yet, despite that clarity, money itself still carries weight. Tension. A quiet moral charge.

Because there is a deeper inheritance at work—one that didn’t come only from church doctrine, but from the stories, images, and exemplars I absorbed long before I ever questioned them.

When I look at the world’s most celebrated spiritual figures, a pattern appears.

Mother Teresa.
Gandhi.
Buddhist monks.
Mystics, saints, renunciates.

Again and again, spiritual fullness is paired with material simplicity—or outright poverty. The message is rarely stated directly, but it’s absorbed nonetheless: when one is truly full of God, one needs less money.

Scripture reinforces this impression. (And the church I grew up in didn’t pay their pastors, deacons, elders, and so on. All of the priesthood members held full-time jobs outside of the church.)

“The love of money is the root of all evil.”
“It is easier for a rich man to pass through the eye of a needle than to enter the kingdom of heaven.”
“Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”

Add to that the dominant image of Jesus—wandering, unattached, living simply—and a binary begins to form. Even knowing there are other narratives of Jesus, including those that trace him to wealth and royal lineage, the version that lodges in the collective body is the ascetic one.

Holy equals simple.
Spiritual equals unencumbered.
Money equals danger.

At some point, this stopped being an idea and became a sensation.

I can feel it in my body when money enters the conversation. A subtle contraction. A hesitation. As if wanting more might signal a lack of trust. As if spiritual maturity should naturally dissolve material desire. As if God and money sit on opposite ends of a moral spectrum and choosing one requires turning away from the other.

I didn’t consciously decide this.
It arrived through repetition.
Through scripture heard without context.
Through reverence offered to those who renounced.
Through a culture that quietly mistrusts abundance when it appears alongside devotion.

And yet—something in me is no longer settled by this framing.

Not because I’ve resolved it, but because I can feel its incompleteness. The belief is there, yes—but it no longer feels entirely true in my body.

So this is where I’m starting.

Not with answers.
Not with conclusions.
But with honesty about the divide I inherited—and how it still lives in me.

Somewhere along the way, money and God became opposites in my nervous system. I didn’t choose that consciously.

But I can feel it now.

Perhaps what started with feeling Godbumps. Now, I am feeling more thoroughly from doing all of this dancing. Hmm


Somatic movement

One of my recent JIGGLE BUTT thumbnails.

Integrating the Spirals

I’m encouraging those “over 60” to open to lifelong learning (observe and gently question their pre-conceived beliefs, aka ‘Programming’), become more aware of their thoughts and emotions, consistently move their bodies (too many are stuck in their heads and physically unhealthy), become strong, and resilient in spirit, soul, mind, body. And to question EVERYTHING!

Link to my YouTube channel where you can see the videos: https://youtube.com/@spiralsister

Yours in consciousness-expansion as we evolve and revolve during our mystical awakening. All while doing-my-egoless-best, to take you on a limitless, spiraling thought ride to better health, through doing more with ease, to help us sustain the JOY in our lives! (With lots of Gratitude throughout.)

Sheila “Spiral Sister” Murrey

The information provided is for educational purposes only and is not intended to treat, diagnose or prescribe.

About us

My husband is an award-winning illustrator, plus he’s a seasoned guitarist, bass player, and songwriter (with over 400 original songs). You can view some of his artwork and listen to many of his songs at: https://www.youtube.com/user/richardmurrey

Here’s a video of us performing on Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/416711742?ref=fb-share

My books on Amazon

I have four books on Amazon. The two most recent are: Have Yourself a Wholly Vibrant Life: Reversing Asthma and Other Chronic Illness Naturally and Blue Eyes: Ethereal Messages of Connection.

Connect with us

Here are the social channels where I am most active:

From Energy Healer To Influencer: How To Turn Your Gifts Into A Grandiose, Soul-Aligned Online Business

The following is from a list of notes I found in a file on my laptop that I’d taken several years ago. Yes, I’ve been going back through my hard drive to see what Perplexity.ai could help me turn into blog articles. And anything that doesn’t offer something relevant, I’m deleting. Call it housekeeping, or call it taking a break from the book. I’ve been neglecting my old files and it’s been nagging at me. Let me know if you, or anyone you know is following this kind of business model. I know a few coaches who are doing it, yet I am hesitant. And now, here’s the article:

Energy healers, spiritual coaches, and empaths are sitting on the most transformative medicine on the planet—yet many are undercharging, overgiving, and exhausted. This post walks through how to step into a grandiose (big, ambitious, kind) business model that honors your Soul, your nervous system, and your bank account.​


The New Paradigm Of Spiritual Business

Traditional “trade time for money” healing is burning people out. A new model blends spiritual depth with smart online marketing, allowing you to serve more people without draining your life force.​

  • Social influence has become a form of currency; your follower count and engagement can translate directly into paid speaking gigs and collaborations.​
  • Meditation creators on YouTube are earning hundreds of thousands per month just by sharing consistent, aligned content, and influencers charge premium rates for simple shout-outs.​

Why Social Influence Beats “Adding Value”

Many spiritual entrepreneurs were taught to “just add value” and hope clients appear. In today’s digital ecosystem, visible influence often matters more than hidden brilliance.​

  • A strong, engaged audience is like a perpetual word-of-mouth engine, multiplying your reach and trust without extra effort.​
  • When brands and event organizers see real metrics—followers, views, comments—they are willing to pay significantly more for appearances and endorsements.​

The DFY / DWY / DIY Offer Stack

One of the most powerful ways to scale your healing or coaching practice is to stop selling only one-on-one sessions and instead build a simple three-tier offer stack.​

  • DIY (Do It Yourself): A lower-ticket course or bundle (for example, a self-paced program plus ebook around $97) gives people affordable access to your system and warms them up for deeper work.​
  • DWY (Do It With You): A mid-ticket group experience (often runs somewhere between $2,000–$4,000 with about 20 hours of content) lets clients receive guidance, community, and live support without you needing to be in one-on-one sessions all day.​
  • DFY (Done For You): A high-level, premium container (up to $25,000 or more) is for clients who want speed and personalized implementation, and it respects both your expertise and your energetic bandwidth.​

Smart Tools To Decode What The Market Wants

You do not have to guess what to offer or how to position it. Data tools can quietly reveal what is already working in your niche so you can align your genius with proven demand.​

  • The Facebook Ads Library lets you spy ethically on ads from teachers, coaches, and healers to see what headlines, offers, and hooks are currently being paid for.​
  • Platforms like Similarweb allow you to plug in a competitor’s website or landing page and see where their traffic comes from and what content is converting, so you can design your own aligned version.​

Energetic Alignment: Godbumps, Not People-Pleasing

Scaling your business does not mean abandoning your sensitivity; it means building structures that protect and amplify it.​

  • Instead of people-pleasing or feeling responsible for everyone’s emotions, empaths can design group containers and digital products that support many people without constant emotional entanglement.​
  • Follow what gives you “Godbumps”—those full-body chills of resonance—and weave in practices like prayer, meditation, yoga nidra, Qigong, or JIGGLE BUTT so your business growth stays in Soul-alignment rather than lack or fear.​

Walking Your Talk In A Grandiose Way

A truly grandiose spiritual business is not about ego; it is about letting your impact grow as big as your devotion.​

  • Study your passion, gather knowledge from many paths, and then become an “extractor of truth,” integrating what works into your own embodied method.​
  • Practice what you preach in everyday life, then let your online presence incite, excite, and awaken people—turning your message into an adventure that attracts your perfect “tribe” of clients and collaborators.
One of my recent JIGGLE BUTT thumbnails.

Integrating the Spirals

I’m encouraging those “over 60” to open to lifelong learning (observe and gently question their pre-conceived beliefs, aka ‘Programming’), become more aware of their thoughts and emotions, consistently move their bodies (too many are stuck in their heads and physically unhealthy), become strong, and resilient in spirit, soul, mind, body. And to question EVERYTHING!

Link to my YouTube channel where you can see the videos: https://youtube.com/@spiralsister

Yours in consciousness-expansion as we evolve and revolve during our mystical awakening. All while doing-my-egoless-best, to take you on a limitless, spiraling thought ride to better health, through doing more with ease, to help us sustain the JOY in our lives! (With lots of Gratitude throughout.)

Sheila “Spiral Sister” Murrey

The information provided is for educational purposes only and is not intended to treat, diagnose or prescribe.

About us

My husband is an award-winning illustrator, plus he’s a seasoned guitarist, bass player, and songwriter (with over 400 original songs). You can view some of his artwork and listen to many of his songs at: https://www.youtube.com/user/richardmurrey

Here’s a video of us performing on Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/416711742?ref=fb-share

My books on Amazon

I have four books on Amazon. The two most recent are: Have Yourself a Wholly Vibrant Life: Reversing Asthma and Other Chronic Illness Naturally and Blue Eyes: Ethereal Messages of Connection.

Connect with us

Here are the social channels where I am most active: