Sheila “Spiral Sister” Murrey Balancing perspectives, Connections, Soul, Spirit

From Energy Healer To Influencer: How To Turn Your Gifts Into A Grandiose, Soul-Aligned Online Business

The following is from a list of notes I found in a file on my laptop that I’d taken several years ago. Yes, I’ve been going back through my hard drive to see what Perplexity.ai could help me turn into blog articles. And anything that doesn’t offer something relevant, I’m deleting. Call it housekeeping, or call it taking a break from the book. I’ve been neglecting my old files and it’s been nagging at me. Let me know if you, or anyone you know is following this kind of business model. I know a few coaches who are doing it, yet I am hesitant. And now, here’s the article:

Energy healers, spiritual coaches, and empaths are sitting on the most transformative medicine on the planet—yet many are undercharging, overgiving, and exhausted. This post walks through how to step into a grandiose (big, ambitious, kind) business model that honors your Soul, your nervous system, and your bank account.​

The New Paradigm Of Spiritual Business

Traditional “trade time for money” healing is burning people out. A new model blends spiritual depth with smart online marketing, allowing you to serve more people without draining your life force.​

  • Social influence has become a form of currency; your follower count and engagement can translate directly into paid speaking gigs and collaborations.​
  • Meditation creators on YouTube are earning hundreds of thousands per month just by sharing consistent, aligned content, and influencers charge premium rates for simple shout-outs.​

Why Social Influence Beats “Adding Value”

Many spiritual entrepreneurs were taught to “just add value” and hope clients appear. In today’s digital ecosystem, visible influence often matters more than hidden brilliance.​

  • A strong, engaged audience is like a perpetual word-of-mouth engine, multiplying your reach and trust without extra effort.​
  • When brands and event organizers see real metrics—followers, views, comments—they are willing to pay significantly more for appearances and endorsements.​

The DFY / DWY / DIY Offer Stack

One of the most powerful ways to scale your healing or coaching practice is to stop selling only one-on-one sessions and instead build a simple three-tier offer stack.​

  • DIY (Do It Yourself): A lower-ticket course or bundle (for example, a self-paced program plus ebook around $97) gives people affordable access to your system and warms them up for deeper work.​
  • DWY (Do It With You): A mid-ticket group experience (often runs somewhere between $2,000–$4,000 with about 20 hours of content) lets clients receive guidance, community, and live support without you needing to be in one-on-one sessions all day.​
  • DFY (Done For You): A high-level, premium container (up to $25,000 or more) is for clients who want speed and personalized implementation, and it respects both your expertise and your energetic bandwidth.​

Smart Tools To Decode What The Market Wants

You do not have to guess what to offer or how to position it. Data tools can quietly reveal what is already working in your niche so you can align your genius with proven demand.​

  • The Facebook Ads Library lets you spy ethically on ads from teachers, coaches, and healers to see what headlines, offers, and hooks are currently being paid for.​
  • Platforms like Similarweb allow you to plug in a competitor’s website or landing page and see where their traffic comes from and what content is converting, so you can design your own aligned version.​

Energetic Alignment: Godbumps, Not People-Pleasing

Scaling your business does not mean abandoning your sensitivity; it means building structures that protect and amplify it.​

  • Instead of people-pleasing or feeling responsible for everyone’s emotions, empaths can design group containers and digital products that support many people without constant emotional entanglement.​
  • Follow what gives you “Godbumps”—those full-body chills of resonance—and weave in practices like prayer, meditation, yoga nidra, Qigong, or JIGGLE BUTT so your business growth stays in Soul-alignment rather than lack or fear.​

Walking Your Talk In A Grandiose Way

A truly grandiose spiritual business is not about ego; it is about letting your impact grow as big as your devotion.​

  • Study your passion, gather knowledge from many paths, and then become an “extractor of truth,” integrating what works into your own embodied method.​
  • Practice what you preach in everyday life, then let your online presence incite, excite, and awaken people—turning your message into an adventure that attracts your perfect “tribe” of clients and collaborators.
One of my recent JIGGLE BUTT thumbnails.

Integrating the Spirals

I’m encouraging those “over 60” to open to lifelong learning (observe and gently question their pre-conceived beliefs, aka ‘Programming’), become more aware of their thoughts and emotions, consistently move their bodies (too many are stuck in their heads and physically unhealthy), become strong, and resilient in spirit, soul, mind, body. And to question EVERYTHING!

Link to my YouTube channel where you can see the videos: https://youtube.com/@spiralsister

Yours in consciousness-expansion as we evolve and revolve during our mystical awakening. All while doing-my-egoless-best, to take you on a limitless, spiraling thought ride to better health, through doing more with ease, to help us sustain the JOY in our lives! (With lots of Gratitude throughout.)

Sheila “Spiral Sister” Murrey

The information provided is for educational purposes only and is not intended to treat, diagnose or prescribe.

About us

My husband is an award-winning illustrator, plus he’s a seasoned guitarist, bass player, and songwriter (with over 400 original songs). You can view some of his artwork and listen to many of his songs at: https://www.youtube.com/user/richardmurrey

Here’s a video of us performing on Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/416711742?ref=fb-share

My books on Amazon

I have four books on Amazon. The two most recent are: Have Yourself a Wholly Vibrant Life: Reversing Asthma and Other Chronic Illness Naturally and Blue Eyes: Ethereal Messages of Connection.

Connect with us

Here are the social channels where I am most active:

Sheila “Spiral Sister” Murrey Art & Music, Balancing perspectives, Connections, Expanding Consciousness

Did we Thrive in ’25? – Year end review of 2025

I opened the Comet browser, which uses Perplexity.ai and entered the statement, Write me a year end summary from my 2025 blog posts at: https://sheilamurrey.net – And the following is what it returned to me:

Your 2025 posts trace a year of expanding creativity, deepening spiritual inquiry, and steady, practical encouragement to “Thrive in ’25” through conscious choice, connection, and holistic self-responsibility.

To listen to this blog post find the audio track here:

Creative expansion and “Thrive in ’25”

Across the year you leaned fully into being a creator—especially through music, video, and collaborations.​
You chronicled the birth of multiple original songs (like GodBumps, Whisper of the Ancients, The Bullies, and the evolving “Intimacy” series), sharing not just finished pieces but your process, experiments with Suno AI, and your joy at finally claiming the “songwriter” mantle alongside Richard’s longstanding catalog.​

You framed this surge of creation inside your “Thrive in ’25” intention, inviting readers to enjoy (“IN Joy”) each day, follow their own creative nudges, and see themselves as fractals of Omniscience participating in a melodious, ever-expanding multiverse.​

Deepening message: responsibility and energetic hygiene

Many posts return to the theme that healing begins with radical self-responsibility—mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually.
You wove together ideas from holistic health, Ayurveda, mind‑body science, and subtle energy (stress as “reaction to thoughts,” spiritual causes of symptoms, vibrational repetition, etc.), while continually reminding readers that they can choose better-feeling thoughts, new habits, and boundaries that protect their energy.

Your “Integrating the Spirals” pieces, especially those addressing embarrassment over others’ bad behavior or broader social tensions, model this energetic hygiene: observe, feel, and then detach without taking on shame or hatred, returning always to the mantra that “Everything Resolves to Gratitude.”

Connection, agape, and We Are All Connected

You amplified the “We Are All Connected” through-line by sharing and reblogging others’ writings on agape love, indigenous wisdom, mystic teachings, and spiritual quotes, situating your work in a wider field of kindred voices.​
Posts on concepts like In Lak’ech, the Ainu people’s gifts, Rosicrucian reflections, and vibrational/spiritual blockages extend your long-term project: mapping how love, frequency, and consciousness shape health, relationships, and collective evolution.​

You also used personal vignettes—Zoom circles, book clubs, WhatsApp groups, your granddaughters’ fascinations, and fellow bloggers’ projects—to show that connection is not abstract; it is lived in community, co‑creation, and mutual uplift.​

2025 posts step more directly into cultural and political edges while trying to stay anchored in balance and discernment.
From bullying and trauma to protests, propaganda, and eroding freedoms, you shared hard-earned insights (“hurt people hurt people,” “useful idiot,” the need to “mine for truth”) and offered tools for not being swallowed by fear, shame, or polarization.​

You often return to the water metaphor—“Be as water and dance while you have legs”—to suggest a way of moving through conflict: fluid yet bounded, compassionate yet unwilling to merge with energies that are out of alignment (oil and water don’t mix).

Meta-moment: seeing yourself through AI’s eyes

A notable 2025 moment was your decision to ask Perplexity AI what it “saw” in you and your practices, and then share those reflections with your readers.
You treated that summary as both a mirror and a confirmation—evidence that years of writing on spirals, holism, and daily practice have cohered into a recognizable method others can articulate and use.

By posting screenshots of that description and inviting feedback, you turned AI into yet another spiral: a feedback loop to refine your language, affirm your path, and encourage readers to explore their own tools for self-knowledge in an evolving digital‑spiritual landscape.

My final thoughts on 2025

In my last blog post, I was remiss or simply forgot to mention the most important thing I did for myself in 2025.

I came back to Christ Jesus.

I published the blog post, https://sheilamurrey.net/2026/01/02/integrating-the-spirals-happy-new-year/ and went to wash our dishes and the thought hit me, “I didn’t put Jesus first in that post”!

There are probably multiple reasons for that such as, 1) it’s a personal decision and relationship and one that doesn’t require me to publicize it, 2) I’ve never really ‘left’ Jesus, though I have studied a variety of religions and have received Dao (a Taoist blessing). I am not one of those who believe Jesus is “the only way” either, thus while I do honor the scripture that says we should not deny Jesus in front of men, I do not proselytize either. I was not raised that way and I’ve certainly learned throughout my life that one cannot “change” anybody. The Bible also says that unless the Holy Spirit (corrected, Father) draws the man, he cannot be saved (That’s me loosely paraphrasing John 6:44 which says, “No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws them, and I will raise them up at the last day.) So, I don’t know about you, but I am not here to convert anyone.

Perplexity.ai was right on about my intentions and reasons for writing blogs and books:

Help us all find better-feeling thoughts, establish and stack new habits, and fluidly embrace boundaries that protect (or at least maintain and not allow others to drain us of) our own personal energy. Because I value all of the attributes of water, I don’t use the word, ‘protection’ much. Water eventually gets its way without having to hard and fast control or protect anything.

Happy New Year everyone! Many blessings and much love!

Integrating the Spirals

I’m encouraging those “over 60” to open to lifelong learning (observe and gently question their pre-conceived beliefs, aka ‘Programming’), become more aware of their thoughts and emotions, consistently move their bodies (too many are stuck in their heads and physically unhealthy), become strong, and resilient in spirit, soul, mind, body. And to question EVERYTHING!

Link to my YouTube channel where you can see the videos: https://youtube.com/@spiralsister

Yours in consciousness-expansion as we evolve and revolve during our mystical awakening. All while doing-my-egoless-best, to take you on a limitless, spiraling thought ride to better health, through doing more with ease, to help us sustain the JOY in our lives! (With lots of Gratitude throughout.)

Sheila “Spiral Sister” Murrey

The information provided is for educational purposes only and is not intended to treat, diagnose or prescribe.

About us

My husband is an award-winning illustrator, plus he’s a seasoned guitarist, bass player, and songwriter (with over 400 original songs). You can view some of his artwork and listen to many of his songs at: https://www.youtube.com/user/richardmurrey

Here’s a video of us performing on Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/416711742?ref=fb-share

My books on Amazon

I have four books on Amazon. The two most recent are: Have Yourself a Wholly Vibrant Life: Reversing Asthma and Other Chronic Illness Naturally and Blue Eyes: Ethereal Messages of Connection.

Connect with us

Here are the social channels where I am most active:

Sheila “Spiral Sister” Murrey Art & Music, Connections, Expanding Consciousness

Integrating the Spirals: With the possible exception of research institutes, Higher Ed lags behind

When I worked for a university (for ten years), I came to realize just how much the formal education system lagged behind in the knowledge they were teaching.

Consider this. Think about how long it takes to get a group of academics together to make degree program decisions, gather textbooks together (it often takes years for authors to write and publish textbooks!), recruit and hire faculty, as well as, prepare learning objectives, course syllabus, outline, instructions, tutorials, learning aids and all other materials. It’s no small feat! And all of that takes time.

A college or university administrative staff then has to prepare a course catalog and academic calendar schedule. And this is only some of the work that has to be done on the student registration side! There are all other kinds of actions that must be performed (setup) before students can show up to attend classes: admissions, financial aid, bookstore, etc.

When you get down to the nitty gritty of it, you can begin to understand why college programs are not on the cutting edge of science.

My educated conclusion? Research institutes may seem like they are on the leading edge of science, but they are also likely slower at disseminating their research findings and groundbreaking discoveries than most of us want to believe.

Perplexity answers

Screen capture: I asked Perplexity.ai why Higher Education seems twenty years behind. (Part 1)
Screen capture: I asked Perplexity.ai why Higher Education seems twenty years behind. (Part 2)
Screen capture: I asked Perplexity.ai why Higher Education seems twenty years behind. (Part 3)

One way I integrate mind and body

Part of what I teach in Integrating the Spirals is bodily movement when reaching new awareness, setting new intentions, or receiving new information to fully embody it.

JIGGLE BUTT has become the daily integration exercise I do that’s fun! It started as a way to promote my husband’s original songs, but now, it has become so much more!

I hope to encourage others over 60 to be open to lifelong learning, aware of thoughts and emotions, consistently move their bodies, become strong, resilient, and create their own Jiggle Butt videos too!

Link to my YouTube channel where you can see the videos: https://youtube.com/@spiralsister

Yours in consciousness-expansion as we evolve and revolve during our mystical awakening. All while doing-my-egoless-best, to take you on a limitless, spiraling thought ride to better health, through doing more with ease, to help us sustain the JOY in our lives! (With lots of Gratitude throughout.)

Sheila “Spiral Sister” Murrey

The information provided is for educational purposes only and is not intended to treat, diagnose or prescribe.

About us

My husband is an award-winning illustrator, plus he’s a seasoned guitarist, bass player, and songwriter (with over 400 original songs). You can view some of his artwork and listen to many of his songs at: https://www.youtube.com/user/richardmurrey

Here’s a video of us performing on Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/416711742?ref=fb-share

My books on Amazon

I have four books on Amazon. The two most recent are: Have Yourself a Wholly Vibrant Life: Reversing Asthma and Other Chronic Illness Naturally and Blue Eyes: Ethereal Messages of Connection.

Connect with us

Here are the social channels where I am most active:

Sheila “Spiral Sister” Murrey Art & Music, Connections, Expanding Consciousness

Integrating the Spirals: How to spot a scam

My credit union sent the following helpful information and tips regarding scams to me (and their other customers) the other day. I found it useful, so I thought I would share it:

Don’t get caught in a Money Mule scam – from my credit union. For obvious reasons I don’t want to disclose the name.
Red flags to watch for and how to protect yourself

I had never heard of a Money Mule scam before. I mean, I guess in concept but not in name.

Now, it’s up to us to do our due diligence to ensure we don’t fall victim to scammers.

By being better informed we can stop scammers from stealing our hard earned money!

Perplexity

I’m using Perplexity AI now to copy and paste potential job scam offers. I’m also using it to ask some scholarly questions pertaining to the research I have done for my 5th book!

So far, I am finding the answers and feedback it provides very helpful!

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JIGGLE BUTT has been continuing to work out and get some views and Likes. These keeps me accountable to get my daily exercise in AND promote my husband’s original songs too! Thus, I love it! I really hope to encourage others over 60 to create their own Jiggle Butt videos too!

Link to my YouTube channel where you can see the videos: https://youtube.com/@spiralsister

Yours in consciousness-expansion as we evolve and revolve during our mystical awakening. All while doing-my-egoless-best, to take you on a limitless, spiraling thought ride to better health, through doing more with ease, to help us sustain the JOY in our lives! (With lots of Gratitude throughout.)

Sheila “Spiral Sister” Murrey

The information provided is for educational purposes only and is not intended to treat, diagnose or prescribe.

About us

My husband is an award-winning illustrator, plus he’s a seasoned guitarist, bass player, and songwriter (with over 400 original songs). You can view some of his artwork and listen to many of his songs at: https://www.youtube.com/user/richardmurrey

Here’s a video of us performing on Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/416711742?ref=fb-share

My books on Amazon

I have four books on Amazon. The two most recent are: Have Yourself a Wholly Vibrant Life: Reversing Asthma and Other Chronic Illness Naturally and Blue Eyes: Ethereal Messages of Connection.

Connect with us

Here are the social channels where I am most active: