
This talk by Terence McKenna gives insight on a wide range of topics, including psychedelics (of course), culture, language and communication, and …
Terence McKenna – How to ask the universe for what you want

This talk by Terence McKenna gives insight on a wide range of topics, including psychedelics (of course), culture, language and communication, and …
Terence McKenna – How to ask the universe for what you want
Often I used to read books before going to sleep. What follows is from one of those times. I’m thinking about potentially narrating books when I retire, or starting a podcast. Let me know what you think in the comments. There’s more on the audio as the point to this post was to test out the narration. Here’s the audio:
Okay, I think what I’m going to do is a little test. And let’s see how this goes. I think I’m going to read just a chapter at a time and post it. This is from a really old book that I’ve been wanting to read for a while. It’s called How to Prosper During the Coming Bad Years. It’s probably out of print. I don’t know. It says it’s a New York Times Books. Are you up for me reading it? It looks like it was a gift to either me or my grandmother in 1980. She passed away in 1980. So I’m not exactly sure unless it was given to my mom and then to me. Let’s see when the printing was. It was printed in 1979. So it’s not as old as I thought. Written by Howard J. Ruff. And it says, of course, “All the rights are reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced in any form or by any electronic or mechanical means, including information storage and retrieval systems without permission in writing from the publisher, except by a reviewer, who may quote brief passages in a review.” So I’m probably not supposed to read a whole chapter. Okay, let me pick out parts of a chapter then and we’ll call this a review.
So, the first page has a note that says, “This publication is designed to provide the author’s opinion regarding the subject matter covered. It is sold with the understanding that the publisher or author is not engaged in a rendering, legal accounting, or other professional service and neither am I by the way, if legal advice or other expert assistance is required, the services of a competent professional person should be sought. The author specifically disclaims any personal liability loss or risk incurred as a consequence of the use and application either directly or indirectly, of any advice or information presented herein.” There are 20 chapters.
I’ll start it this way. There’s an introduction. Then there’s part one, The Problems. Part Two, is The Preservation and part three is The Strategy. Now within part one, there are 11 chapters. There are the watershed year’s inflation, the great transfer tax, a world turned upside down, and put governors on the monitors that sound interesting. The Ponzi chain ladder, east side, west side, the old homestead, don’t bank on it, power to the President. We owe it to ourselves and sin tax SSIN. That’s interesting to know Okay, so then in part two, the preservation there’s an introduction to it, and chapter 12 is about gold and silver coins. There’s personal debt passed on to the old maid. That’s probably talking about the card game I don’t know. But there was a card game named Old Maid preparing for the black market, panic proof. And then in strategy, there’s an introduction. And chapter 17 Is the breakeven or better strategy, the golden calf, a girl’s best friend and Do Thy Patient No Harm. There’s an appendix and an index.
We’ll just do the Introduction. Let me know if you’re interested in hearing more about this. And perhaps I’ll do another by offering a review of each section. How about that instead of each chapter? Let’s see. So that would be four reviews because we’ll review the problems, which probably most of us are already very familiar with the problems the preservation part and the strategy part. So the introduction, I’ll just read a paragraph to myself, perhaps, and then I’ll summarize so bear with me. I’m not a speed reader.
It starts by talking about some time back so they’re quoting November 1968. They went to a meeting and thought they were going to receive some help. And advice from people who managed a company. Oh, it was a speed-reading franchise. I honestly did not read that yet. When I said I was not a speed reader. So that’s funny. They were beginning to emerge from a very difficult few months resulting from a prolonged newspaper strike. And as most of these strikes, do, they come without warning that prevented them from advertising during peak months. I think we’ve all probably been there. We had been in financial trouble. For some time, but things have started to improve on that. Sounds good right? So the author says when he walked out of a meeting, he was wiped out. His franchise had been canceled in the struggle to save the company was over. His business was down the tubes have been her had been notified that his accounts were frozen, but that’s not good. He had $11.36 in his pocket. Yeah, no money, no job, and no unemployment insurance because there isn’t any such thing for small businesses. Who goes broke and that is true? When you’re self-employed, and I know this from both my parents as well as friends, as well as times when I’ve been self-employed as well, there’s no retirement pension. There’s no insurance you have to self-insure for your health and, and life and property, all that sort of thing. And then you have all sorts of business expenses too, which never made sense to me.
One of my friends said, that while she was running her own business, she calculated all the hours that she put in and she was making something like $4 an hour. I mean, that’s why they say you’ve got to do what you love if you’re going to run your own business because you’re not. You could go to work for anybody else and make more than that you can make minimum wage flipping burgers and make more than that. So make sure you do what you love if you are going to run your own business. But back to the book.
He’s talking about a spectacular collapse that had the front page of the financial section in the San Francisco Bay. Area newspapers. And he was invited to resign from a committee of the Oakland Symphony finance committee because I guess he was embarrassing them. There was a terrible period and he says in our lives, so I’m assuming that he’s married. Okay. He says it had only been five months since the accidental drowning of our 21-month-old son, Ivan. Well, that’s very tragic, and sad, I cannot imagine. So he was in the depths of despair, and that tragedy began a chain of events that culminated in his writing of this particular book. His family and he, I guess, decided that such pain, public humiliation, and grief had to be put into some positive purpose. And I’m thinking perspective for others as well as themselves. I feel that it always helps if you’re trying to help someone else that tries to help you through your problems.
He went to work armed with a determination to learn everything he could from the business failure, so that it would never happen to them again. It was then he resolved to apply to his life and future principles that he learned from a variety of sources as well. That’s great and I’ve done the same thing with integrating the spirals. There was, oh, a Mormon upbringing. Okay, that explains why my mom had this book and shared it with me. Which stressed prudence, yes. Avoidance of unsound debt. Yes. My mom was always saying that all the time to us to get out of debt, stay out of debt, and a kind of 19th century rugged self-sufficiency. That’s a quote.
He had been studying economics and either was or studied. Being a stockbroker specializing in venture capital and municipal bonds 25 years as an actor and professional singer had taught him to be persuasive and effective in the use of language in front of audiences. Well, that’s good. And yes, I can see where that would be very helpful if you were going into sales or as in his situation, apparently, entrepreneurial enterprise. So it continues, that he was determined someday to repay every day he had a lot of people say that that get into these kinds of situations, even though his legal obligation was discharged through the legal process of bankruptcy.
My mom and dad went through the same thing. So I understand that. He goes on to say, to right when Jesus preached the virtues of a broken heart and a contrite spirit, which is a quote from the Bible. He believes that Jesus met that people generally do not bring about real change in their lives until they’re traumatized by hitting a bottom of despair and misery, from which there’s no choice but to make basic changes in one’s life and Outlook or follow a path to self-destruction. And from that, bottom in his life came the determination not only to ever, never repeat the same mistakes that I’ve made invulnerable, but help others avoid personal financial difficulties caused by their lack of understanding of the real world. And then something that he retained from that speed reading school collabs was a personal ability to read rapidly.
Well see, that’s fantastic. That’s a skill that I wish I had. And he goes on to say that he can handle a lot of material rapidly and have close to Total Recall, and five hours a day of reading he processes vast amounts of written material and runs across things that most people would never have a chance to get to bits and pieces of information click into place that would not have done so how to not discover too much ground in a short time and can quickly become a walking encyclopedia. Almost anything. I’ve really usually not a jealous person, but I’m somewhat jealous of that.
Maybe perhaps that’s a skill that I can acquire. And once I retire, I do scan a lot which is probably what’s helping me scan these first few pages. But I’m, I do not consider myself a speed reader. And I always got low marks in school myself for comprehension. So it’s something that I’ve had to work on. In fact, in my opinion, I am a slow reader. Because I am always really diving in to comprehend deeply, you know, not just comprehending to regurgitate something in five minutes and then forget about it, but to understand it and incorporate it into my life in some way.
So he goes on, let’s see he’s talking about under-capitalized business ventures, which I don’t understand or know much about. I guess that means you maybe didn’t finance enough. I know capital is money like to start a business with Buddy Okay, so he was successful in one and then one called an advisory service, which was called the rough times are you FF that’s funny, used his name well in that bencher in between, he became interested in flying and developed an obsessive interest in weather and climatology, which is something he says that every economic forecaster should know about. I also became fascinated with the subject of nutrition. Oh, interesting. Well, that’s where we connect again. As well as I worked with an Aeronautical University for 10 years. So I know a little bit or two about flying, not that I ever flew and my dad was a private pilot as well.
So he established a vitamin supplement and food storage distributorship. But then sold the business but that equipped him for his research into food problems and food storage. These events plus long he had a long interest in economics and Kant all came together when he wrote this book that I’m reading the introduction of right now. However, it was the business collapse that gave him perspective drive and the character he says, hopefully, to bring, bring him to the point where he could speak with authority from a pretty good track record as a forecaster. And advisor.
That’s where he is today as of this 1979 Writing anyway. And always has the TV talk show too called the rough house, which is shown or at that time was shown in more than 60 stations. across the US. Then this book was originally conceived as a basic text for subscribers to his advisory service. Okay, and I guess he did some personal planning it’s short-term and intermediate, intermediate-term trends can change so I agree it creates both risks and opportunities and timetables can sometimes use adjustment.
So he wrote a book that could stand alone, but the staff and subscribers could use it to stay apprised of any changes in economic climate or strategy. That explains why there’s that section.
The last section is about strategy. There are alternate strategies for these changes in economic climates and chapter 20. Okay, so some material has been has come from, I guess, his extensive files and information that had gone out in the rough times. That’s the name of it. And then he decided also to introduce and summarize some from his first book.
Okay. So, what we read here should be considered an updated summary and review. And then he explains why he wrote this book before he was an author. He was the father and husband and that’s still, his number one role in life, loves his wife and children. They along with his religion, and an alarmed conscience should form an inseparable whole he’s concerned about the hard times he sees coming and how the family will have to live in that world. We want to prepare them to get through without physical discomfort. And with his fundamental Judeo-Christian values intact, working very hard to see that sound principles of ethics, morality, and economics are passed on to his offspring because when he trains his children, he’s also going to be training grandchildren. Everything I write is in the final analysis, his legacy to them.
Yeah, and I believe that’s the same thing. That motivates me. Because after I had my first granddaughter, I thought I wanted to I sat with that for a long time about how I wish so much that I had some writings from my grandparents on both sides, but in particular migrant my mother’s mother, my maternal grandmother because she was Native American and I wanted so much to understand her background. And, it was a really hard thing to kind of prove to there’s my spiral thought going into the Native American Tribal roles and trying to prove which tribe I’m from and connected to and all that sort of thing. So back to the book, he talks about that he explains how we can panic-proof our life, get our debts under control, how to make certain investments to be the inflationary spiral, interesting, he’s got the spiral there too. And all the things that will make for social and financial stability and keep the world kind safer for your family. He explains why he thinks we’re reading the book and then offers some conventional wisdom in economic forecasting and financial planning. Sacred Cows are outdated, inaccurate, Pollyanna-ish, and unrealistic. I agree.
Another full book, not this old but one I also highly recommend is, Sacred Cows Make the Best Burgers by Kriegel and Brandt. That was an excellent book as well and used a lot of sports references. So for the guys of course or anybody that loves sports–it’s a really good book. I’m not a sports fan, but I still got through it and I learned a lot and wrote a paper about it during time spent working one of my first corporate jobs. Our whole team was supposed to read it, but I took it on like it was a college class.
So let’s see, he ends this introduction with his point of view that he had written for the economic ecologist which was about the study of interrelationships of living organisms and their environment. So I thought that was very interesting too and something that I would like to explore further. And that’s how we come to know to see about the Hippocratic Oath, to which every physician subscribes to, which is to “Do Thy Patient, No Harm.” That’s his objective for everything he’s advising us to do.
He’s says he lives within the limits of his financial resources and is comfortably well-off but not wealthy. Those who will gain the most benefit from this book are those who have some savings or some assets small or large, such as equity in a home . Well, I don’t have that and never did because even of all the three homes that I’ve owned or, or partially owned with a partner, the equity I made on one got lost on the other two.
One home I sold did turn a profit but then I ended up putting that into the next home and ended up losing my shirt so I can’t say that I came out ahead. But he goes on to say you can start your personal and financial survival program with as little as $50 a month for a few months. I’m doing that right now. But it’s more than that.
Everybody can do something even if it’s only to vote fools out of office, and I don’t know what this word means “mount of banks.” So when I get to look up, those who keep digging our hole deeper, surely would not be thrilled about what our national debt is now in the US all these some 40 years later, right?
Throughout the book, you find references to books, publication services, and products with some candid consumer guides, type comments and to assist you in searching for them. He’s listed all of these at the end of the book giving addresses phone numbers and prices where appropriate. When and where appropriate. Each product is listed so refer to the text in the appendix. He will make commercial recommendations but receives no financial rewards from those recommendations.
I’m pretty much on the same while though I do have in my Being Wholly Vibrant blog. That’s my review blog and there are ads that WordPress puts in as well as some of the products I may make a small commission on. I’m in two companies right now but I’m only promoting one because I enjoy and love those products so much. And all the rest of them are like with Instacart–there’s a coupon so you can save money and I’ll save money too on my next order things like that, but nothing that’s you know, gonna make me wealthy from sharing about but there are the honest reviews on stuff I try.
I’ve worked hard over the years to stay brand independent, and the information that I share, because I feel that helps keep me honest. And I learned a long time ago not to use that phrase “in all honesty,” blah, blah blah because that means that you’re not honest about other stuff. You’re only honest about the stuff right after you say “in all honesty.”. Across the board I’m honest. I just think that staying brand independent helps me not present conflicting information or not make anyone feel pressured in any way; not to sway someone to think brand A is better than brand B or whatever. I will give you my opinion as when something tastes terrible. But again, you know, it’s just to me your taste buds are completely different from mine. And so and our taste buds change over time. So that’s just one example of I can tell you that something tastes terrible, but you might buy it and use it and love it. I just do my best to stay brand independent unless I’m truly in love with a product or a philosophy or teaching or such. All right, I will end this for now.
Let me know what you think about the book. And if you want me to continue reviewing it. Thank you for listening or following along with the text!
To buy the version of this book, which is appears the author updated in 2008: https://www.amazon.com/Prosper-During-Coming-Years-Century/dp/0425224325/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1Z2I634RM00FO&keywords=how+to+prosper+during+the+coming+bad+years&qid=1690691870&sprefix=how+to+prosper+%2Caps%2C159&sr=8-1
Transcribed by https://otter.ai and edited using Grammarly
In my gift to you of the Integrating the Spirals™ DE-Program courses, you can layer in our original music from Listen4Music.com and choose from more than 400 songs you’ve not heard before to build new neural pathways and open spaces to aid self compassion and soul growth.

The information provided is for educational purposes only and is not intended to treat, diagnose or prescribe.
My husband is an award-winning illustrator, plus he’s a seasoned guitarist, bass player, and songwriter (with over 400 original songs). You can view some of his artwork and listen to all of his songs at: http://listen4music.com
Here’s a video of us performing on Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/416711742?ref=fb-share

I would love to speak at your bookstore, crystal shop, acupuncture/chiropractor office, natural health foods store, art fair, music, or yoga festival. I support healthy lifestyle businesses.
I invite you to check out my two new books on Amazon:
The 2nd edition of my holistic health book, Have Yourself a Wholly Vibrant Life: Reversing Asthma and Other Chronic Illness Naturally.
AND
The metaphysical book–Blue Eyes: Ethereal Messages of Connection. There are two versions (Kindle and paperback) on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3WV68KF
I’m an Amazon bestselling author of two co-authored books: “Transform Your Life Book 2 Inspirational Stories and Expert Advice” and “Energy of Receiving” available on Amazon.
Connecting…
For more about what all I plan to do when I retire, my courses, and our original music, follow us on TikTok “Spiral Sister” and on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/takeonyour
Here are some stats for you to bear in mind while I present notes from the free course I’m taking right now on the Circadian Rhythm and how I can work to reset my hormones:
Everyone seems sick, tired, and miserable.
We are not doing well.
I’ve told you before about how I learned nourishing my body is much better than dieting–as I learned while doing WildFit last year.
Dr. Stephanie Rimka says the protein study is a protein and aging study that looked at the actual protein requirements for Aging and Longevity. They did a massive meta-analysis based on some of the best protein research and the American Medical Association says we’re extremely protein deficient. This is causing people to get osteoporosis much sooner. And causing muscle mass to be gone dramatically. This is the cause of all the falls etc. It is estimated that by the time you are over 60 if you fall, there’s a 50% chance of never walking again. And the person may not fall but a bone breaks because their bones are weak. So, the takeaway here is that most do not eat a high-protein diet. Most Americans eat an adequate or minimum protein diet. We’re not talking about the protein requirements of a bodybuilder, or somebody with cancer, or wasting away disease. This is a baseline for adults.
The nourishing plan I’m on also has me working to master leptin. There are five rules of leptin that people have used for years to master it.
There are a lot of hormones in the hormonal system.
Leptin and insulin are your two important hormones. There’s a whole bunch more of course.
Leptin is your fat-burning hormone. Many get this wrong. Leptin is not your enemy. Leptin is your friend. Leptin says “burn fat baby” speed up the metabolism. Fit people often have to do some biohacking to raise their leptin. They’re trying to increase it because your body fat is an organ–yes, that white body fat you can grab.
Why have we been talking negatively to our fat? Telling her she was fat and stupid and ugly and you know she’s been saving your life. And you haven’t been kind and gracious and said thank you. Fat is an organ and endocrinal–it makes a lot of hormones. A lot of them. Leptin is one of the ones it makes when you have a lot of fat. You make a lot of leptin so then the body says, Oh, you need to burn the fat. You’re too fat. So burn fat. It speeds up your metabolism and it says I need you to stop eating. When it cuts the hunger it opens the fat stores. It does that to bring you back into balance.
When you get too skinny there’s not enough fat, right? Leptin goes really low and then it says we need to make her hungry and slow the metabolism. Stop burning that fat we can’t afford to lose anymore. And by the way, don’t let her get pregnant. That’s what leptin is doing. The problem is when you’ve gotten bigger and bigger and bigger, fatter, fatter and fatter.
So, if we have high leptin your body thinks ‘slow’ and makes you crave and hungry. And not be fertile and slows down fat metabolism. Some supplements (like the new one I’m taking) and the five rules of leptin are helping to do that as well. It’s because you’ve been breaking those rules for years that your leptin got all out of whack, so we must reverse engineer the issue. Insulin is a beautiful hormone your pancreas makes that stores energy and shuttles energy into cells.
The first thing it will gobble up is alcohol. If you have any alcohol, it’s using that first. Nothing else is happening until the alcohol is gone. Then it goes after glucose and then fructose. Then it will hunt for fatty acids. Then it will go after the deep fat stores. So, reverse engineer what you’re putting in your body. Only so much energy can go into your cells. When it’s done, it stores the energy for insulin and your fat storage hormone.
If you want to be thin, you better have a low insulin. You better change everything in your life to keep yourself living an insulin-controlled lifestyle. If you’re living an insulin-controlled lifestyle, you will be automatically living an anti-inflammatory inflammation-controlled lifestyle. Right? They all go together. They fit in so beautifully synergistically so you kind of worry about a couple of things and you’re going to cover almost everything and go to the next one. That’s a big problem in most of the diet culture. And what’s going on in different plans is going after we’re going to cut cut, cut, we’re going to restrict restrict restrict. They end up starving you have the most important thing you end up needing is protein the most satisfying, right? The thing that gives the biggest reward we say satiety is a real natural protein and a Whole Foods state will always have a ton of fat with it. Those two together, spike a very slow insulin. Insulin seems very low, but you’ve gotten tremendous energy from the fat and you’ve gotten tremendous body repair and building from the protein, protein in and of itself.
At about 30 years of age our hormones start to drop off.
You say, I just eat salad. But you can only white knuckle yourself for so many weeks. And then you’re also trying to increase your activity right? You say ‘I’m gonna walk’ and ‘I’m gonna lift weights’ and ‘I’m gonna do Zumba’ and ‘I’m gonna do Pilates’. And like five weeks in, you’re gonna cry because you’re starving. Because your appetite now is through the roof. Because you haven’t been eating enough food and the most important one is the protein and the fat–that’s a real thing. And because not eating enough makes you hungry by the way and increasing exercise makes you hungry. So how do you think you’re going to do all those things without eventually breaking and going into binge-eating or ice cream mode?
You need to be super satisfied, incredibly nourished. So there’s no part of your cells that feel they’re starving. Your brain doesn’t think it’s starving. It’s not in fear. Your cells are finally starting to get nourished. We’re bringing in things we like, unlocking a little bit of fat occasionally, if you’re not metabolically flexible right now, you need to know this.
We’re combining the protein study with the leptin, mastering reset rules, and it all centers around this because it’s keeping insulin low and it’s giving you everything you need. Every essential nutrient is in the animal for everyone on Earth, period. Fact. You need protein and fat. And things such as Zinc, B vitamins, and choline.
Let’s assume you’re eating five or six times a day. And that you’re leptin resistant. When you want to eat after dinner, or have late night cravings and can’t fall asleep. That’s a massive sign. You don’t need to get your blood labs drawn if that’s what’s been going on with you.
Don’t strive for perfection. Take a 1% movement every day. Stay consistent and find a pattern (which, works great with Integrating the Spirals) and a practice for the rest of your life. You’ve got to live with this. You got to live with your body, your food choices, and your movement choices. Don’t start some new activity you dislike. Find fun things and play! This should be fun. Life should be full of JOY. Joyful people are always healthier. If you are’t happy now, pretend! Start practicing JOY. Focus on that this week.
Transcribed by https://otter.ai and edited using Grammarly
Working the Integrating the Spirals™ DE-Program Session 2 will present the concept of how to prioritize and integrate what you’ve already bought, and touch on the following:

My husband is an award-winning illustrator, plus he’s a seasoned guitarist, bass player, and songwriter (with over 400 original songs). You can view some of his artwork and listen to all of his songs at: http://listen4music.com
Here’s a video of us performing on Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/416711742?ref=fb-share
I invite you to check out my new metaphysical book–Blue Eyes: Ethereal Messages of Connection. There are two versions (Kindle and paperback) on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3WV68KF

In and beyond this magnificent Universe, Omniscience knows ALL. Omniscience is always with you because you are a fractal part of Omniscience. You are truly never alone in this ever-expanding Universe. We are each fractals of Omniscience akin to glints of sunlight on the surface of a large body of water or the rays of sunshine shining upon us.
Fractal of Omniscience. “Spiral Sister”🌀Observer & Perceiver of Energy & Wisdom from Nature. Empath|Author|Connector|Speaker|Singer.❤️🦋🌀🎼〰️🙏🔥☯️
I would love to speak at your bookstore, crystal shop, acupuncture / chiropractor office, or other holistic / natural fair or festival. I support healthy lifestyle businesses. For information on ALL of my books, visit my Amazon Author page.
An Amazon bestselling author of two co-authored books: Transform Your Life Book 2 Inspirational Stories and Expert Advice, Energy of Receiving, and author of the captivating Blue Eyes: Ethereal Messages of Connection as well as the incredibly helpful 2nd edition of Have Yourself a Wholly Vibrant Life: Reversing Asthma and Other Chronic Illness Naturally.
Be the best version of who you want to be–who your soul beckons you to be. It’s important because who you are in this world affects us ALL. We Are All Connected.
Information provided is for educational purposes only and is not intended to treat, diagnose or prescribe.
Connecting…
I’m on Rumble now! https://rumble.com/v28jhyo-about-control.html
For more on Integrating the Spirals, notes from the free course I’m taking right now on the Circadian Rhythm, resetting hormones, or any of the other health and Awakening information I promote, follow us on TikTok “Spiral Sister” and on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/takeonyour
My friends have asked me many times, “How did you get that job”? I’ve told them some of these things, but maybe not all, so I am beginning a list (I’ll update it) of all my ladder climbing tips.
Also, how can you “play by the rules“, if you don’t know what the rules are?
Like me, you may have read other articles on this topic that have offered “x number of ways to get the job you want” or some other similar titles.
But I’m not going to talk about those old, and well worn topics because you should already know those (if not, google those to find out more).

Back when I was in college, it really irritated me when one or more people on my project team would slack – not do their fair share of the project work. I’d step up and do more because of my super responsible nature so we could get a high grade. I learned early on the true value of teamwork and team-building.
At work when a team forms, I have experienced team dynamics that follow the “forming, storming, norming, and performing” model credited to Bruce Tuckman in 1965. You can visit wikipedia or buy books about it.
First, the boss may assign several disparate people a goal to complete a project. A team forms, but because you don’t know each other, you encounter a period of ice-breaking and posturing. You may not have a choice over who participates on the team.
The more the team comes together to get the project underway, the group will storm – meaning some people will want to lead, cause conflict, be negative, point out potential issues, or demand respect that has yet to be earned. Arguments and miscommunication occur during the storming phase. Members will pick sides. One or more may decide it’s okay to slack. The boss may need to step back in during the storming phase. When they don’t, it can take the team much longer to get their “ducks in a row” (so to speak).
When the energy of the team evens out and any or all bickering subsides, the team will be in the normal phase and stuff will flow easier. The ebb and flow of cooperation will be experienced by all of the teammates. Communication will improve between all members. Team members may even become friends. The boss doesn’t have to step in much because he / she can direct one team member to effectively communicate the request to the team and trust the team will receive the information and act on it appropriately.
When the work is evenly distributed and stuff is getting done in a timely fashion, the team will be in the performing mode. You feel it when you’re in a good rhythm and mutual respect and admiration is occurring. It’s exciting! A performing team is unstoppable! Results will be achieved and the team will exude confidence and pride in their accomplishments.
Unfortunately, some people never quite get the whole teamwork attitude though. You’ll need to have a lot of patience as long as these folks remain on your team. It would benefit everyone on the team, and within the company as well, if they’d learn how much teamwork matters.
When team members support each other, they’ll often graciously provide references to individuals within the group when the time comes for one or more folks to move on to leadership roles within the organization, or to a position with another institution or company. A job reference is the ultimate professional compliment! You’ll need three references for your next job and recruiters only want recent references, not someone you did an outstanding job for five or more years ago.
An Amazon bestselling author of two co-authored books: “Transform Your Life Book 2 Inspirational Stories and Expert Advice,” “Energy of Receiving”, plus author of “Blue Eyes: Ethereal Messages of Connection,” and holistic health book that details how I naturally reversed asthma, “Have Yourself a Wholly Vibrant Life: Reversing Asthma and Other Chronic Illness Naturally” all available on Amazon.
Be the best version of who you want to be.
Information provided is for educational purposes only and is not intended to treat, diagnose or prescribe.
For more about me, this blog, how I create websites, why I wrote a holistic health book, and more, find me on Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn.