It’s February 19th, 2024; Here’s an original traditional country song that Richard Murrey wrote when he lived in Bishop, California. He was observing men who were in mourning over their significant others who had passed, and some who were simply lonely–and put pen to paper to craft this country tune.
Too sad?
Here’s the fiftieth new music post for 2024, as I practice consistency in the sharing of our original songs–one each day. Are the lyrics too sad? I would call it a ‘cry-in-your-beer’ song but I think it’s even too sad for that. It hearkens back to ‘He Stopped Loving Her Today’ except he didn’t die, only his other half crossed over (to the Grand Beyond).
I think I’ll let you listen and tell me how you take this. I’ve given you fair warning as to what it’s about:
Healing lyrics
This song gets me in my gut when I think of my Mom and Dad. I remember how Dad cared for Mom for the last several years of her life (Mom died of Alzheimer’s disease). Dad passed almost two years after Mom. Richard always says Dad died of a broken heart. All I know is Dad was sooo lonely. Intellectually, I know Dad missed his routine of caring for Mom and the yin-yang passion/arguments they’d shared for sixty years. But my heart aches that they didn’t have more good times. And as much as I attempted to help Dad, by suggesting he find a new purpose, socialize with his friends, or such, he would always tell me, “I miss her so” with his voice cracking. UGH
But I love to remember them like this, holding hands and smiling. This is a picture I took when I visited them and took my doggies–Mom loved Beau (and Lou-Lou)!

I do attempt to keep my mind on the positive side of life, so I’d prefer to look at the photos I have during healthy times, like this one. And the times when we could all get together. Ah, this song is helping me heal–layer by layer on many levels.
I look forward to having more family time with my daughter and her family when we move up north this summer. It’s going to be a slow crawl for me, mentally, to let go of all Florida has meant to me though. But I believe I can do it. Music is healing! Songs like, Remember, help me heal from the past.
I know memories shift over the years, and I always find there’s a flip side (yin-yang) to Everything.
Heard my favorite songs playlists yet?
Here’s Sheila’s Favorite Movie Theme and Soundtrack Songs
And here’s my all-time favorite songs (by a variety of artists).
Plus, you can find all of my YouTube playlists here:
https://www.youtube.com/@SpiralSister/playlists
May we all feel freer and soar in ’24!
Find our songs on Spotify
Lots of our original songs are on CDBaby and TuneCore. As well, some of our original songs are on Spotify. If you want to find them, search for ”Richard Murrey’ as the artist, OR ‘Chevy Ford Band.’ Next, find two Spotify links to help you find our original songs:
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Yours in expanding, rockin’, revolving, spiraling consciousness,
To our better health, ease, and sustaining lives of JOY!
Sheila “Spiral Sister” Murrey
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My husband is an award-winning illustrator, plus he’s a seasoned guitarist, bass player, and songwriter (with over 400 original songs). You can view some of his artwork and listen to all of his songs at: http://listen4music.com
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You’re right, music is a great healer.
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Even though country music isn’t my favorite genre, I have come to appreciate some of it. And now look what’s happening with Kid Rock and Robert Plant in Nashville! Ha!
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